I'm really enjoying reading Jesus, the Gentle Parent: Gentle Christian Parenting, by L.R. Knost.
I don't remember exactly where I saw it recommended; it might have been in one of my RIE groups. So far it almost all resonates with me, but I appreciate that she includes references instead of just sharing her opinions and experiences. I've highlighted a lot of those for future reference, but here is one of my favorite quotes so far:
"Instant obedience and mindless compliance are poor goals, indeed, when raising children. A thoughtfully questioning passionately curious, and humorously resourceful child who delights in inventing 'compromises' and who endlessly pushes the boundaries tends to become a thoughtful, passionate, resourceful adult who will change the world rather than being changed by the world." (p33)
"Instant obedience and mindless compliance are poor goals, indeed, when raising children. A thoughtfully questioning passionately curious, and humorously resourceful child who delights in inventing 'compromises' and who endlessly pushes the boundaries tends to become a thoughtful, passionate, resourceful adult who will change the world rather than being changed by the world." (p33)